In His Own Words
About him
Widowed after 56 wonderful and exciting years: "Happiness at any cost". It's worth it!
Long walks have been replaced with jokes and laughter and generaly enjoying life in the slow lane. I'm a naturally funny guy who will, hopefully, make you smile or laugh most of the time and honest enough to admit nobody’s perfect. I’ve traveled the world, I'm an experienced DIY'er which makes a terrific money-saving hobby!
I've published four audiobooks full of my real-life stories. They will confirm everything I say!
I’m looking for a lady with a similar mindset: someone who wants to share laughs, dinners, trips, quiet evenings, or whatever feels good that day. No pressure, no games — just two independent people enjoying each other’s company and mutually agreeing the best way to create their own happy love bubble.
If that makes sense and sounds like it may work for you, let’s talk frankly. I’m totally independent and just bought a flat in Bognor Regis. Life’s too short to waste — let’s get started. Looking forward to hearing from you.
About his ideal match
An "average lady" who:
1) Agrees with me that Nobody is Perfect!
2) Can accept that I make decisions with her! 😊
3) Doesn't want to spend all day slaving away, as love and laughter will fill our day.
4) Fitness or sports fanatics will be considered only if they are happy for me to watch.
What His Friends Say
Tracy said...
My friend Alan!
We have been friends for 30 years.
I can honestly say Alan is a very kind,thoughtful and considerate gentleman. He is a wonderful friend and a perfect host,and l have no hesitation in supporting his next journey with a wonderful lady to care for. He is extremely well travelled and very intelligent whilst remaining grounded. He is very honest, genuine and sincere. I hope he finds a very caring lady with the same attributes. He also likes to have fun and happiness because that is what continues to seek. Sign up ladies, you don't know what you are missing.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Chichester, West Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
85 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
75 - 85 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Retired | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Moderation |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Jazz |
Reading: |
I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; News; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Shopping; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Gastro Pub; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Other |
Feelings about using Forty Plus Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |