In His Own Words
About him
New to all this - looking for someone to smile with, head out with and to have a cuddle with
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About me
I think attraction helps. Not the whole story, but a pretty good opening chapter.
I’m easy-going, relaxed, and generally happier in real life than I am in endless chats. I like people who can flirt properly, laugh at themselves, and enjoy a bit of playful back-and-forth.
The best evenings usually start with “just one drink” and somehow end several hours later wondering where the time went.
I’m not interested in games, mixed signals, or collecting pen pals. I’d rather meet, see if there’s chemistry, and let things unfold naturally.
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What I’m looking for
Someone confident, playful, and comfortable in their own skin.
A woman who enjoys a little tension, a little anticipation, and understands that the best connections aren’t always the loudest ones.
If you can flirt, hold a conversation, and occasionally encourage bad decisions involving another round, we’ll probably get on very well.
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Interests
• Drinks that accidentally become an entire evening
• Good conversation and quick wit
• Chemistry you can feel, not analyse
• Making plans and then happily ignoring them
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First date
A drink somewhere relaxed.
No interviews. No checklists.
Just enough conversation to discover whether we’re both smiling for the same reason.
About his ideal match
Looking for a kind, warm open person
Needs to be able to talk easily and be independent minded. I like a challenge but not a battle!!!
Enjoys a snuggle and occasionally has claws is a plus
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Belfast, Antrim, Northern Ireland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel |